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If there's one thing that absolutely paralyzes me from getting started it's perfectionism. It's not that I think I won't be able to do a thing. It's more that I'm pretty sure I won't be the best at it. AND, personally, if I'm not going to be the best or even come close...I have a tough time trying at all. Does this sound familiar? Am I just a whiner? =E2=80=8B It's not difficult to go online and find some outlandish achievement within a matter of seconds. Ahem, and I quote: ...a guy doing push-ups while spinning a basketball on a toothbrush ( https://click.convertkit-mail.com/zluqx82956bnh4649rzuph2k03n00/25h2hoh24rm= 3wnh3/aHR0cHM6Ly95b3V0dWJlLmNvbS9jbGlwL1Vna3g4cER5a014djJ5YmN5QlFfcFNVT2JTZ= 1AtVXVLSDFtbT9zaT1vejFuRjVsalhHVTlaVy1J ) =F0=9F=8F=80 =F0=9F=92=AA=F0=9F=8F=BC ...a 10-year-old ballerina doing perfect twirls ( https://click.convertkit-mail.com/zluqx82956bnh4649rzuph2k03n00/qvh8h7hrogk= dpeul/aHR0cHM6Ly95b3V0dWJlLmNvbS9jbGlwL1Vna3hVYWFOTElxR1hMNlhKa1o4ZjNIbkxLO= E5UT00tWUk4aD9zaT0za3ZWdVRiSW5OZEVWZXYw ) and then seamlessly transitioning into round-housing a karate dummy =F0=9F=A9=B0 =F0=9F=A5=8B ...an entire YouTube channel ( https://click.convertkit-mail.com/zluqx82956bnh4649rzuph2k03n00/g3hnh5h367q= mwrir/aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cueW91dHViZS5jb20vQGR1ZGVwZXJmZWN0 ) made up of "impossible" trick shots that defy physics =F0=9F=A4=AA 10 or so years ago we would have seen JUST ONE OF THOSE THINGS once every 5 years at most. Now there's a new compilation video that surfaces seemingly every day. Which means: IT FEELS LIKE WHAT'S CONSIDERED GOOD OR ACCEPTABLE IS INCREASINGLY IMPOSSIBLE TO KEEP UP WITH Which also means that if you struggle with perfectionism it feels like you don't even have a chance =F0=9F=A4=A6=F0=9F=8F=BC=E2=80=8D=E2=99= =82=EF=B8=8F The Nirvana Fallacy ------------------- In 1969 an economist named Harold Demsetz ( https://click.convertkit-mail.com/zluqx82956bnh4649rzuph2k03n00/3ohphkh746p= 3ggcr/aHR0cHM6Ly9lbi53aWtpcGVkaWEub3JnL3dpa2kvSGFyb2xkX0RlbXNldHo=3D ) coined the phrase "Nirvana Fallacy" ( https://click.convertkit-mail.com/zluqx82956bnh4649rzuph2k03n00/wnh2hghwx90= q6eh7/aHR0cHM6Ly9lbi53aWtpcGVkaWEub3JnL3dpa2kvTmlydmFuYV9mYWxsYWN5 ) to talk about how a lot of public policy decisions were being postponed because they were being held to impossible standards. For instance, no one wanted to pass laws about using seatbelts because "people were going to die in car crashes anyways." So the logic goes: "Because people are going to die in car crashes no matter what we do, we might as well not try at all." That might sound crazy BUT when you think about it, it's exactly what we do when we hold off on getting started because we're worried it won't be as good as it possibly could be. It's what Voltaire ( https://click.convertkit-mail.com/zluqx82956bnh4649rzuph2k03n00/08hwh9hdg0l= 2rpal/aHR0cHM6Ly9lbi53aWtpcGVkaWEub3JnL3dpa2kvUGVyZmVjdF9pc190aGVfZW5lbXlfb= 2ZfZ29vZA=3D=3D ) hinted at when he said, "Perfect is the enemy of good." Or when my friend would tell me, "An imperfect something is better than a perfect nothing." Lessons from an ADHD Community ------------------------------ I was recently diagnosed with ADHD =F0=9F=8E=89=F0=9F=8E=89. On my journey = to try and find some things that help me stay focused, I signed up for an ADHD community. One of the leaders in that group said something that impacted me PROFOUNDLY with this very issue. She said: "If you're having trouble getting started on a task shoot for a B or B minus." In other words, don't try to do your best. Allow yourself to lower the stakes so you feel like you have permission to get something done even if it's not perfect. Isn't that why it's called a "rough draft" in the first place! I actually have to lower the stakes even further. So, I shoot for like a "D" =F0=9F=A4=B7=F0=9F=8F=BC=E2=80=8D=E2=99=82=EF=B8=8F (a B just fe= els a little too nerve-wracking, amiright?) It's like KC Davis says in her book, "Keeping House While Drowning." ( https://click.convertkit-mail.com/zluqx82956bnh4649rzuph2k03n00/vqh3hrhpe2w= or5ug/aHR0cHM6Ly9hLmNvL2QvZ2NIZ1ZDZQ=3D=3D )=E2=80=8B "Anything worth doing, is worth doing poorly." Should that be my next tattoo?? Not Doing the Best at Your Work is Not a Moral Issue ---------------------------------------------------- The problem is we associate our performance in areas like business, career or cleanliness with some kind of moral statement about who we are. BUT, how well you do with your design business or how clean you keep your kitchen IS NOT A MORAL ISSUE. When you remove the connection between what you do for work and how good of a person you are it makes getting things done WAYYY EASIER. AND, oddly enough, it also makes doing really well in those areas WAYYY easier. It's not far-fetched to assume that you probably feel or have felt a similar struggle with different things you're trying to get done (even if you don't have ADHD). So, here's my encouragement to you: * It's okay to not do your best * It's okay if you have limited energy resources and only PARTIALLY showing up is all you can offer right now * It's okay to barely get a passing grade Instead of letting perfectionism keep you from reaching out to that potential client OR writing that blog post OR finishing that project show yourself some grace and be okay with not doing it perfectly. Then, after some time has passed, come back to it and make it slightly better. Do, that again and again and YOU'LL BE THE ONE in those crazy compilation videos that we all pause and ask ourselves, "How the heck are they doing that?" Chris =E2=80=8B BTW: We host things like Co-Working Sessions ( https://click.convertkit-mail.com/zluqx82956bnh4649rzuph2k03n00/l2hehmh365x= l95f6/aHR0cHM6Ly9kZXNpZ25lci5zaG93aXQuY29tL2MvZXZlbnRzL2NvLXdvcmtpbmctc2Vzc= 2lvbi1qYW4yNA=3D=3D ) in our designer community to help you overcome the fear of just getting started on something. 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AND, p= ersonally, if I'm not going to be the best or even come close...I have a to= ugh time trying at all.</p> <p class=3D"" style=3D"margin:1em 0;font-size:18px;line-height:1.5em;font-f= amily:Arial,-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,= Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Neue',sans-serif;color:#4e5f69;font-size:16px;l= ine-height:1.4">Does this sound familiar? Am I just a whiner?</p> <table width=3D"100%" border=3D"0" cellspacing=3D"0" cellpadding=3D"0" styl= e=3D"border-collapse:separate;mso-table-lspace:0pt;mso-table-rspace:0pt;tex= t-align:left;table-layout:fixed;float:none" class=3D"email-image"><tbody><t= r><td align=3D"left" style=3D"vertical-align:top"><figure style=3D"margin:1= em 0;margin-top:12px;margin-bottom:12px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;max-wi= dth:200px;width:100%"><div style=3D"display:block"><img src=3D"https://embe= d.filekitcdn.com/e/5qtgGfmErPRgyEkWKvzu2e/oH1KBourgTyetMtwLUTC3S/email" wid= th=3D"200" height=3D"auto" style=3D"border:0 none;display:block;height:auto= ;line-height:100%;outline:none;-webkit-text-decoration:none;text-decoration= :none;max-width:100%;border-radius:4px 4px 4px 4px;width:200px;height:auto;= object-fit:contain"></div> <figcaption style=3D"margin-top:0.4em;font-size:0.8em;text-align:center;dis= play:none">=E2=80=8B</figcaption></figure></td></tr></tbody></table> <p class=3D"" style=3D"margin:1em 0;font-size:18px;line-height:1.5em;font-f= amily:Arial,-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,= Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Neue',sans-serif;color:#4e5f69;font-size:16px;l= ine-height:1.4">It's not difficult to go online and find some outlandish ac= hievement within a matter of seconds. Ahem, and I quote:</p> <p class=3D"" style=3D"margin:1em 0;font-size:18px;line-height:1.5em;font-f= amily:Arial,-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,= Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Neue',sans-serif;color:#4e5f69;font-size:16px;l= ine-height:1.4">...a guy doing <a href=3D"https://click.convertkit-mail.com= /zluqx82956bnh4649rzuph2k03n00/25h2hoh24rm3wnh3/aHR0cHM6Ly95b3V0dWJlLmNvbS9= jbGlwL1Vna3g4cER5a014djJ5YmN5QlFfcFNVT2JTZ1AtVXVLSDFtbT9zaT1vejFuRjVsalhHVT= laVy1J" target=3D"_blank" rel=3D"noopener noreferrer" style=3D"color:#2e97c= 2" url-id=3D"1608732108">push-ups while spinning a basketball on a toothbru= sh</a> =F0=9F=8F=80 =F0=9F=92=AA=F0=9F=8F=BC</p> <p class=3D"" style=3D"margin:1em 0;font-size:18px;line-height:1.5em;font-f= amily:Arial,-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,= Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Neue',sans-serif;color:#4e5f69;font-size:16px;l= ine-height:1.4">...a 10-year-old <a href=3D"https://click.convertkit-mail.c= om/zluqx82956bnh4649rzuph2k03n00/qvh8h7hrogkdpeul/aHR0cHM6Ly95b3V0dWJlLmNvb= S9jbGlwL1Vna3hVYWFOTElxR1hMNlhKa1o4ZjNIbkxLOE5UT00tWUk4aD9zaT0za3ZWdVRiSW5O= ZEVWZXYw" target=3D"_blank" rel=3D"noopener noreferrer" style=3D"color:#2e9= 7c2" url-id=3D"1608732109">ballerina doing perfect twirls</a> and then seam= lessly transitioning into round-housing a karate dummy =F0=9F=A9=B0 =F0=9F= =A5=8B</p> <p class=3D"" style=3D"margin:1em 0;font-size:18px;line-height:1.5em;font-f= amily:Arial,-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,= Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Neue',sans-serif;color:#4e5f69;font-size:16px;l= ine-height:1.4">...an entire <a href=3D"https://click.convertkit-mail.com/z= luqx82956bnh4649rzuph2k03n00/g3hnh5h367qmwrir/aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cueW91dHViZS5jb= 20vQGR1ZGVwZXJmZWN0" target=3D"_blank" rel=3D"noopener noreferrer" style=3D= "color:#2e97c2" url-id=3D"1608732110">YouTube channel</a> made up of "impos= sible" trick shots that defy physics =F0=9F=A4=AA</p> <p class=3D"" style=3D"margin:1em 0;font-size:18px;line-height:1.5em;font-f= amily:Arial,-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,= Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Neue',sans-serif;color:#4e5f69;font-size:16px;l= ine-height:1.4">10 or so years ago we would have seen <em><strong>JUST ONE = OF THOSE THINGS </strong></em>once every 5 years at most. Now there's a new= compilation video that surfaces seemingly every day.</p> <p class=3D"" style=3D"margin:1em 0;font-size:18px;line-height:1.5em;font-f= amily:Arial,-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,= Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Neue',sans-serif;color:#4e5f69;font-size:16px;l= ine-height:1.4">Which means:<u> IT FEELS LIKE WHAT'S </u><strong><u>CONSIDE= RED </u></strong><strong><em><u>GOOD OR ACCEPTABLE</u></em></strong><u> IS = INCREASINGLY </u><strong><u>IMPOSSIBLE TO KEEP UP WITH</u></strong></p> <p class=3D"" style=3D"margin:1em 0;font-size:18px;line-height:1.5em;font-f= amily:Arial,-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,= Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Neue',sans-serif;color:#4e5f69;font-size:16px;l= ine-height:1.4">Which also means that if you struggle with perfectionism it= feels like you don't even have a chance =F0=9F=A4=A6=F0=9F=8F=BC=E2=80=8D= =E2=99=82=EF=B8=8F</p> <h3 class=3D"" style=3D"font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-size:1em;ma= rgin:0;font-size:1.17em;margin:1em 0;font-family:Verdana,-apple-system,Blin= kMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Ne= ue',sans-serif;color:#10232b;line-height:1.5"><u>The Nirvana Fallacy</u></h= 3> <p class=3D"" style=3D"margin:1em 0;font-size:18px;line-height:1.5em;font-f= amily:Arial,-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,= Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Neue',sans-serif;color:#4e5f69;font-size:16px;l= ine-height:1.4">In 1969 an economist named <a href=3D"https://click.convert= kit-mail.com/zluqx82956bnh4649rzuph2k03n00/3ohphkh746p3ggcr/aHR0cHM6Ly9lbi5= 3aWtpcGVkaWEub3JnL3dpa2kvSGFyb2xkX0RlbXNldHo=3D" target=3D"_blank" rel=3D"n= oopener noreferrer" style=3D"color:#2e97c2" url-id=3D"1608732112">Harold De= msetz</a> coined the phrase <a href=3D"https://click.convertkit-mail.com/zl= uqx82956bnh4649rzuph2k03n00/wnh2hghwx90q6eh7/aHR0cHM6Ly9lbi53aWtpcGVkaWEub3= JnL3dpa2kvTmlydmFuYV9mYWxsYWN5" target=3D"_blank" rel=3D"noopener noreferre= r" style=3D"color:#2e97c2" url-id=3D"1608732115">"Nirvana Fallacy"</a> to t= alk about how a lot of public policy decisions were being postponed because= they were being held to impossible standards.</p> <p class=3D"" style=3D"margin:1em 0;font-size:18px;line-height:1.5em;font-f= amily:Arial,-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,= Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Neue',sans-serif;color:#4e5f69;font-size:16px;l= ine-height:1.4">For instance, no one wanted to pass laws about using seatbe= lts because "people were going to die in car crashes anyways."</p> <p class=3D"" style=3D"margin:1em 0;font-size:18px;line-height:1.5em;font-f= amily:Arial,-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,= Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Neue',sans-serif;color:#4e5f69;font-size:16px;l= ine-height:1.4">So the logic goes: "Because people are going to die in car = crashes no matter what we do, we might as well not try at all."</p> <p class=3D"" style=3D"margin:1em 0;font-size:18px;line-height:1.5em;font-f= amily:Arial,-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,= Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Neue',sans-serif;color:#4e5f69;font-size:16px;l= ine-height:1.4">That might sound crazy BUT when you think about it, it's ex= actly what we do when we<strong> hold off on getting started because we're = worried it won't be as good as it possibly could be.</strong></p> <p class=3D"" style=3D"margin:1em 0;font-size:18px;line-height:1.5em;font-f= amily:Arial,-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,= Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Neue',sans-serif;color:#4e5f69;font-size:16px;l= ine-height:1.4">It's what <a href=3D"https://click.convertkit-mail.com/zluq= x82956bnh4649rzuph2k03n00/08hwh9hdg0l2rpal/aHR0cHM6Ly9lbi53aWtpcGVkaWEub3Jn= L3dpa2kvUGVyZmVjdF9pc190aGVfZW5lbXlfb2ZfZ29vZA=3D=3D" target=3D"_blank" rel= =3D"noopener noreferrer" style=3D"color:#2e97c2" url-id=3D"1608732117">Volt= aire</a> hinted at when he said, "Perfect is the enemy of good."</p> <p class=3D"" style=3D"margin:1em 0;font-size:18px;line-height:1.5em;font-f= amily:Arial,-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,= Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Neue',sans-serif;color:#4e5f69;font-size:16px;l= ine-height:1.4">Or when my friend would tell me, "An imperfect something is= better than a perfect nothing."</p> <h3 class=3D"" style=3D"font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-size:1em;ma= rgin:0;font-size:1.17em;margin:1em 0;font-family:Verdana,-apple-system,Blin= kMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Ne= ue',sans-serif;color:#10232b;line-height:1.5"><u>Lessons from an ADHD Commu= nity</u></h3> <p class=3D"" style=3D"margin:1em 0;font-size:18px;line-height:1.5em;font-f= amily:Arial,-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,= Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Neue',sans-serif;color:#4e5f69;font-size:16px;l= ine-height:1.4">I was recently diagnosed with ADHD =F0=9F=8E=89=F0=9F=8E=89= . On my journey to try and find some things that help me stay focused, I si= gned up for an ADHD community.</p> <p class=3D"" style=3D"margin:1em 0;font-size:18px;line-height:1.5em;font-f= amily:Arial,-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,= Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Neue',sans-serif;color:#4e5f69;font-size:16px;l= ine-height:1.4"><span style=3D"font-size:16px">One of the leaders in that g= roup said something that impacted me PROFOUNDLY with this very issue. She s= aid:</span></p> <div style=3D"font-family:Arial,-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI'= ,Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Neue',sans-serif;color:#4e5= f69;font-size:16px;line-height:1.4;padding:10px 20px;margin:0 0 20px;border= -left-style:solid;border-left-width:5px;border-left-color:#e1e1e1" class=3D= "blockquotes"><div class=3D"blockquotes-line"><strong><span style=3D"font-s= ize:16px">"If you're having trouble getting started on a task shoot for a B= or B minus."</span></strong></div></div> <p class=3D"" style=3D"margin:1em 0;font-size:18px;line-height:1.5em;font-f= amily:Arial,-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,= Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Neue',sans-serif;color:#4e5f69;font-size:16px;l= ine-height:1.4"><span style=3D"font-size:16px">In other words, don't try to= do your best. Allow yourself to lower the stakes so you feel like you have= permission to get something done even if it's not perfect. </span></p> <p class=3D"" style=3D"margin:1em 0;font-size:18px;line-height:1.5em;font-f= amily:Arial,-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,= Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Neue',sans-serif;color:#4e5f69;font-size:16px;l= ine-height:1.4"><span style=3D"font-size:16px">Isn't that why it's called a= "rough draft" in the first place!</span></p> <p class=3D"" style=3D"margin:1em 0;font-size:18px;line-height:1.5em;font-f= amily:Arial,-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,= Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Neue',sans-serif;color:#4e5f69;font-size:16px;l= ine-height:1.4"><span style=3D"font-size:16px">I actually have to lower the= stakes even further. So, I shoot for like a "D" =F0=9F=A4=B7=F0=9F=8F=BC= =E2=80=8D=E2=99=82=EF=B8=8F (a B just feels a little too nerve-wracking, am= iright?)</span></p> <p class=3D"" style=3D"margin:1em 0;font-size:18px;line-height:1.5em;font-f= amily:Arial,-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,= Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Neue',sans-serif;color:#4e5f69;font-size:16px;l= ine-height:1.4"><span style=3D"font-size:16px">It's like KC Davis says in h= er book, </span><a href=3D"https://click.convertkit-mail.com/zluqx82956bnh4= 649rzuph2k03n00/vqh3hrhpe2wor5ug/aHR0cHM6Ly9hLmNvL2QvZ2NIZ1ZDZQ=3D=3D" targ= et=3D"_blank" rel=3D"noopener noreferrer" style=3D"color:#2e97c2" url-id=3D= "1608732119"><span style=3D"font-size:16px">"Keeping House While Drowning."= </span></a>=E2=80=8B</p> <div style=3D"font-family:Arial,-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI'= ,Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Neue',sans-serif;color:#4e5= f69;font-size:16px;line-height:1.4;padding:10px 20px;margin:0 0 20px;border= -left-style:solid;border-left-width:5px;border-left-color:#e1e1e1" class=3D= "blockquotes"><div class=3D"blockquotes-line"> <strong><span style=3D"font-size:16px">"Anything worth doing, is worth doin= g </span></strong><u><strong><span style=3D"font-size:16px">poorly</span></= strong></u><strong><span style=3D"font-size:16px">."</span></strong> </div></div> <p class=3D"" style=3D"margin:1em 0;font-size:18px;line-height:1.5em;font-f= amily:Arial,-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,= Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Neue',sans-serif;color:#4e5f69;font-size:16px;l= ine-height:1.4">Should that be my next tattoo??</p> <h3 class=3D"" style=3D"font-weight:bold;font-style:normal;font-size:1em;ma= rgin:0;font-size:1.17em;margin:1em 0;font-family:Verdana,-apple-system,Blin= kMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Ne= ue',sans-serif;color:#10232b;line-height:1.5"><u>Not Doing the Best at Your= Work is Not a Moral Issue</u></h3> <p class=3D"" style=3D"margin:1em 0;font-size:18px;line-height:1.5em;font-f= amily:Arial,-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,= Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Neue',sans-serif;color:#4e5f69;font-size:16px;l= ine-height:1.4">The problem is we associate our performance in areas like b= usiness, career or cleanliness with some kind of moral statement about who = we are. BUT, how well you do with your design business or how clean you kee= p your kitchen <strong>IS NOT A MORAL ISSUE.</strong></p> <p class=3D"" style=3D"margin:1em 0;font-size:18px;line-height:1.5em;font-f= amily:Arial,-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,= Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Neue',sans-serif;color:#4e5f69;font-size:16px;l= ine-height:1.4">When you remove the connection between what you do for work= and how good of a person you are it makes getting things done WAYYY EASIER= .</p> <p class=3D"" style=3D"margin:1em 0;font-size:18px;line-height:1.5em;font-f= amily:Arial,-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,= Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Neue',sans-serif;color:#4e5f69;font-size:16px;l= ine-height:1.4">AND, oddly enough, it also makes doing really well in those= areas WAYYY easier.</p> <p class=3D"" style=3D"margin:1em 0;font-size:18px;line-height:1.5em;font-f= amily:Arial,-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,= Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Neue',sans-serif;color:#4e5f69;font-size:16px;l= ine-height:1.4">It's not far-fetched to assume that you probably feel or ha= ve felt a similar struggle with different things you're trying to get done = (even if you don't have ADHD).</p> <p class=3D"" style=3D"margin:1em 0;font-size:18px;line-height:1.5em;font-f= amily:Arial,-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,= Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Neue',sans-serif;color:#4e5f69;font-size:16px;l= ine-height:1.4">So, here's my encouragement to you: </p> <ul class=3D"unordered_list" style=3D"margin:1em 0;margin-left:1em;padding:= 0;font-size:18px;line-height:1.5em;font-family:Arial,-apple-system,BlinkMac= SystemFont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Neue',= sans-serif;color:#4e5f69;font-size:16px;line-height:1.4;list-style-position= :outside !important;list-style-position:inside"> <li class=3D"list_item" style=3D"padding:0 0 0 1em;margin:0;margin-left:1em= "><span>It's okay to <strong>not do your best</strong></span></li> <li class=3D"list_item" style=3D"padding:0 0 0 1em;margin:0;margin-left:1em= "><span>It's okay if you have limited energy resources and <strong>only PAR= TIALLY showing up is all you can offer right now</strong></span></li> <li class=3D"list_item" style=3D"padding:0 0 0 1em;margin:0;margin-left:1em= "><span>It's okay to <strong>barely get a passing grade</strong></span></li= > </ul> <p class=3D"" style=3D"margin:1em 0;font-size:18px;line-height:1.5em;font-f= amily:Arial,-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,= Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Neue',sans-serif;color:#4e5f69;font-size:16px;l= ine-height:1.4">Instead of letting perfectionism keep you from <em>reaching= out to that potential client</em> OR <em>writing that blog post</em> OR <e= m>finishing that project</em> show yourself some grace and be okay with not= doing it perfectly.</p> <p class=3D"" style=3D"margin:1em 0;font-size:18px;line-height:1.5em;font-f= amily:Arial,-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,= Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Neue',sans-serif;color:#4e5f69;font-size:16px;l= ine-height:1.4">Then, after some time has passed, come back to it and make = it slightly better. </p> <p class=3D"" style=3D"margin:1em 0;font-size:18px;line-height:1.5em;font-f= amily:Arial,-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,= Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Neue',sans-serif;color:#4e5f69;font-size:16px;l= ine-height:1.4">Do, that again and again and <em>YOU'LL BE THE ONE</em> in = those crazy compilation videos that we all pause and ask ourselves, "How th= e heck are they doing that?"</p> <p class=3D"" style=3D"margin:1em 0;font-size:18px;line-height:1.5em;font-f= amily:Arial,-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,= Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Helvetica Neue',sans-serif;color:#4e5f69;font-size:16px;l= ine-height:1.4">Chris</p> <table 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